Dating Safety Tips

Whether you’re dipping your toes into dating for the first time or coming back after a break, staying safe should always be your top priority. Every town and city has its own unique dating vibe, from online matches to fun local events – and you can enjoy it all with a little smart planning.

1. Choose Trusted Dating Platforms

Stick to established dating apps and websites that have strong security features like profile verification and reporting tools. Plentymorefish is one great option, but whatever platform you use, choose carefully and protect yourself.

2. Keep Personal Info Private

Hold back on sharing too much too soon. Avoid giving out:

• Your home address or exact workplace until trust is built over several dates.
• Financial info, National Insurance numbers, or your date of birth.
• Intimate photos that could be misused.

3. Meet in Safe, Public Places

Your first few dates should always be in bright, public, and busy locations such as coffee shops, restaurants, or popular parks. Tell a friend or family member where you’re going and who you’re meeting.

4. Trust Your Instincts

If something feels wrong, it probably is. Pay attention to red flags like:

• Pushy or invasive questions.
• Stories that don’t add up.
• Refusal to video chat or meet in public.

5. Use Tech to Stay Safe

Technology can be your best friend when dating:

• Share Your Location: Use WhatsApp or Find My Friends with someone you trust.
• Check-In Reminders: Set alerts on your phone to check in after your date.

6. Protect Your Wallet

Financial scams are common in dating. Never send money, share banking info, or cover someone’s “emergency expenses.” Genuine connections don’t require cash.

7. Be Mindful with Alcohol

A drink or two is fine, but stay in control. Only accept drinks you’ve seen prepared, and never leave your glass unattended.

8. Report Suspicious Behavior

If someone acts inappropriately, report them through the dating platform right away. Most sites take user safety seriously and will take action.

9. Reflect After the Date

Take a moment to ask yourself: Did I feel respected? Did I feel safe? Your intuition will guide you in deciding whether to see them again.

Emergency Contacts

If you ever feel unsafe, remember you can discreetly ask venue staff for help using the “Ask for Angela” code phrase – they are trained to support you. For advice or to report concerning behavior, call the police on 101, or dial emergency services if you’re in danger.

Dating should be fun, exciting, and safe. When you protect yourself and set clear boundaries, you can enjoy the journey and focus on making genuine connections.